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How to Make a Monster

bondage, dominance, submission, sadism, masochism, mastery, slavery

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BDSM D/s M/s Personals
Membership:
Open
Posting Access:
All Members , Moderated
Description:
Looking for a romantic, sexual, and/or play partner(s) for BDSM, D/s, or M/s? Post here!
I spent a while poking around LiveJournal looking for a good BDSM and/or D/s add-me/personals community, but I couldn't find a single one that was active, and most of the communities on the topic disallow personals. So I decided to create a community for it. The rules are simple.

1.) Don't be a dick.

2.) Don't spam the community. Activity is good, flooding is not. Members are allowed one advertisement a day to start with, but if that gets annoying I will modify it upward. On-topic non-ad posts are unlimited, but if that gets abused it won't stay that way. No off-topic posts or advertising non-BDSM communities.

3.) You must be 18+ to join. Sorry, LJ's rule, not mine. Therefore, you will need to have your birthdate in your userinfo, or else send me (dacnomaniac) a message with your birthdate through LJ's message service. Right now joining is unmoderated because I don't want to micromanage, but I *will* check everyone who joins the community, and if you don't give me either an age statement or your age in the profile, I *will* kick/ban you. Sorry, but I don't want the com to get baleeted.

5.) All personal ads, and all content that is not safe for work, should be Friends Only and LJ-cut. If you don't know how to LJ-cut, look in the FAQ.

6.) Discussion on other topics is allowed, so long as it pertains to BDSM or paraphilias in some way. This is primarily a personals/add-me community, however, so don't abuse this or I'll have to change it.

7.) Don't forget to use tags on your posts, especially your advertisements. This will help everyone, including you, locate people with more precision.

You don't have to use the following form, but something like it would be preferred. The more information you provide, the more likely it is you'll find someone(s) you're interested in and compatible with.

Required

Contact Info: E-mail, AIM/MSN/Yahoo/ICQ ID, or whatever, so interested people can contact you.
Preferred Name: What you want to be called in 'the scene'/'in character'/what have you.
Real Name: First name only, just so people know what to call you outside scenes and 'theme' environments.
Sex/Gender:
Sexuality: Nonexistent to satyriasis/nymphomania; straight to gay to pansexual to asexual.
Location: Presumably you want to meet this person offline; therefore, give your city, or zip code at least, so people local to you can find you. If you're only looking for Internet activity, delete this field.
I Am: Describe yourself. Height, weight, general appearance.
You Are: Describe what you're looking for.
I Want To: Describe what you want to do with this person or people.

Optional

Fantasy: Include the fantasy you're most interested in fulfilling with the person(s) you're looking for. This will help people find those best-matched to them. Preferably, this should be something you've never gotten to do before, or something you've not done in a long time, but it can be anything you especially want to do.
Turn-Ons: Things you like in a partner/Dom(me)/sub/Master/slave, whether physical, personality-wise, et cetera.
Turn-Offs: Same deal, but what you don't want.
Kinks: Like, say, leather, knifeplay, asphyxiation, "forced" sex, capture scenes, animal play, BBW, watersports, pregnancy, couples, butch lesbians, manly gay men, multiple dildo penetration, whatever you like best.
Squicks: DO NOT WANT. Whatever turns you off, that you'd never, ever do.
Pictures: If you have any photos you'd like to share, put them here. All pictures must go behind the cut, and a warning is mandatory for all non-work-safe material.)

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